What a day!!!

[Hoàng Nhật Minh (isis)]

 

[Vũ Đàm Linh (Mazerlin)]

A Clay hero ?

Bro Minh, you know what? I never thought such a grown-up man like you could mourn in this "cheap" way (sorry ). It's really strange to see these lines :shock:

Anyway, you do some fencing? Fantastic!!! Oh I hope I have a chance, sigh . Ah, is it like Chinese/Roman/... martial arts?

What a day! I was burnt under the sun for two hours, and still have loads of things to crammed. My lord, give me some Instant Memory Improvement Potion!

 

[Hoàng Nhật Minh (isis)]

 

[(Unregistered)]

Anyway, what the heck is a friend or a significant other for if you must end up pouring all your childish mournings on a public site? I might be wrong, but I expected a MAN who's gonna be THIRTY soon and who seems to have not so boring a life to be less SKETCHY. Sigh

 

[Hoàng Nhật Minh (isis)]

Anyway, what the heck is a friend or a significant other for if you must end up pouring all your childish mournings on a public site? I might be wrong, but I expected a MAN who's gonna be THIRTY soon and who seems to have not so boring a life to be less SKETCHY. Sigh

Oh, oh, I was jusk kidding around but seem to make a wrong fun. If I make you so upset (although I can't find the reason), forgive me. OK? Somebody wants to show that he is a real MAN, I want to show that I am partly a KID. Could it be possible?

Anyway, smile at me. OK?

P/S: ease your hate. And why don't you use your registered account? I saw it around 40 days ago. Right?

 

[Vũ Đàm Linh (Mazerlin)]

Wee wee :lol:

Facts: Men are inclined to be tough. I often find my cousin fights hard to hold his tears back.

===> Conclusion 1: Tough men are common, soft men are rare
===> Conclusion 2: Soft men are more precious
===> Conclusion 3: Soft men are preferable (by the lady)
===> Conclusion 4: Men! You should (sometimes) be soft.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Ah, Minh, you have surprised me many times, sigh, I'm sorry but I 'm really disappointed. And my apologies for my naughtiness, a person who is much younger than you and does not know you should not say like that.

But...

Would you allow me to say I'm disapointed with what you've done? Erase everything? Nah, ignore me. Let me be disapointed...just ignore my words, thanks.

 

[Hà Chi (Libra)]

Ah, Minh, you have surprised me many times, sigh, I'm sorry but I 'm really disappointed. And my apologies for my naughtiness, a person who is much younger than you and does not know you should not say like that.

But...

Would you allow me to say I'm disapointed with what you've done? Erase everything? Nah, ignore me. Let me be disapointed...just ignore my words, thanks

Different people have different ways to deal with criticisms in life. Anyhow, just want to say, I like the way you are/act now, Linh Being honest to yourself would always be the best.

 

[V.N Hà Anh (HaAnh)]

oh hell, say what you wanna say, write what you wanna write, think what you wanna think, be who you wanna be...Ignore the rest!!

Actually hee hee, I must be a terrible girlfriend so that my man had to write these upset stuffs up here

 

[Hoàng Nhật Minh (isis)]

...Being honest to yourself would always be the best.

OK. To be honest:
I was sketchy because it was a bad day
I was ashamed because I expressed it in a wrong way to the wrong place
I erased everything because I thought Unregistered was my old friend
And I am here now because I express it in a wrong way again, this time

 

[Vũ Đàm Linh (Mazerlin)]

Oh, Minh, my poor big brother, you are so honest to yourself that you did everything on a spur of the moment (oh hell, I'm making comments about people). Why didn't you think before you wrote those lines? Why didn't you think before you erased them? You are bahaving strangely. Come again to say you are honest? So honest, everywhere. Or is it the way of a grown-up?

Ok, ok I'm the most dishonest person in the net. On a gloomy day, if I meet someone that wrote ills about me, then Ipour harsh words on them to ease my mind. Hah hah hah, poor those guys, they have to suffer from all my bad feelings. That's the way I do/are, sis Chi ). I'm sorry . I rarely erase my posts because I never listen to my friends and because I think what I have done is right. I hope you won't hate me, Chi

PS: My deepest and truest sympathy to you, bro Minh. I can see how your online life is going on from HAO, to TL, TH, and somewhere else. I hope you find a shelter at last, where you don't have to read mocking comments from people like me. Wow, I'm getting bitchy, really in the mood for expressing my disappointment :lol:. YOu're unlucky, Minh.

 

[Hoàng Nhật Minh (isis)]

 

[Hà Chi (Libra)]

OK. To be honest:
I was sketchy because it was a bad day
I was ashamed because I expressed it in a wrong way to the wrong place
I erased everything because I thought Unregistered was my old friend
And I am here now because I express it in a wrong way again, this time

I thought you would have wanted to close this topic, but just want to say a bit more now.

I wasn't able to read what you posted in the first place. And I thought you had your reason to delete it as you wanted. (It's not the first time you did that though ) Just in my opinion, I think deleting what you wrote doesn't help anything. Especially for man!

As for my preference, I would prefer to live my life like your girlfriend does "say what you wanna say, write what you wanna write, think what you wanna think, be who you wanna be..." That's what I meant with "being honest to yourself." I admire those people because I'm not that type of people and cannot do what they are doing.

Somebody wants to show that he is a real MAN, I want to show that I am partly a KID. Could it be possible?

Actually hee hee, I must be a terrible girlfriend so that my man had to write these upset stuffs up here

I have no idea what's going on there between you two And have no intention to interfere as well But just want to say what I felt. I would love my man sharing his true feelings with me and knowing his "kid-part." Very much. But it would be the best and the valuable if it's ONLY me who know the childish part of my man- not the whole world, so that I can treasure my privilage. All the best to you two!

Ok, ok I'm the most dishonest person in the net. On a gloomy day, if I meet someone that wrote ills about me, then Ipour harsh words on them to ease my mind. Hah hah hah, poor those guys, they have to suffer from all my bad feelings. That's the way I do/are, sis Chi . I'm sorry . I rarely erase my posts because I never listen to my friends and because I think what I have done is right. I hope you won't hate me, Chi

Of course I don't hate you for that, my dear sis, especially when I haven't experienced to be your victim on your gloomy days (and I don't wish to be though, plzzzzz!!!!) I think you are still young so you want to wear a "hard shell" to hide something soft inside (or maybe just my imagination ) So you'll grow up later and know what you should do then. I (and others) wouldn't like you "that" much if you are/act like an old lady (like me ) anyway Since you knew that what you did could hurt others/make them suffered, you would know what to do then

 

[V.N Hà Anh (HaAnh)]

To Chi: Actually it's easy to say.. sometimes you feel like you wanna do or say something but you know you shouldn't cus it will hurt other's feelings. So I've learnt to live my life the way I want, be the person I want to be but I do try not to hurt people's pride.
Of course I will be b*tchy when someone wants to bite me in the a** but I don't normally jump at people
By the way that's the way you are so be happy with yourself!

 

[Vũ Đàm Linh (Mazerlin)]

I saw the way you jump at people, sis Hà Anh. You said it's easy to say. I disagree, esp in your case :lol: (hell, no I'm in a good mood to mock and I wish you COULD see my point). Forgive me!

Oh, change it a bit. Would you forgive me if you saw my point?
(hell, no , I'm evil enough :cry

To sis Chi, *punch on my hard-shell*, ooch, it's really hard, it's harder
:-& I like hurting people, it makes my life complete jk. Actually, I just want to hone my language, argument skills and suffering abilities. I know they will revenge, and most of people (friends) are not hurt by my words at all, we just attack with words for fun really. (just add: but there are some exceptions). I do not hold any prejudices or malevolences in doing that, just, you know, practicing for the life.

 

[V.N Hà Anh (HaAnh)]

hee hee I forgot to make it clear, my mistake! "I don't normally jump at people for no reason". But like you said, there are exceptions!
No, but I get your point and I am no saint, forgive me

 

[Vũ Thành Nam (vtnamus)]

Just think...

Just some thoughts:

Hà Anh, why do you use “cuss” to imply such good will? We all know that it’s better to be honest, the problem might be the way we express ourselves. And it happens to all of us, now and then.

First you said “ignore the rest”, and then you said you “do not try to hurt people's pride”. It sounds good but there is a contradictory in your words which might mislead us to understand the true person in you.

I myself prefer the way people talking straightforward (like Miss V.Đ.Linh), although it might hurt our feeling sometime. But it helps us to understand each other. Does it worth for the internet time, for the effort we make to expose our thinking? Especially this is a public website where people can talk whatever they want and can easily hide their real parts of them.

The last words, understanding who he was but not being “who you wanna to be” may be the hope of the starter of this topic.

Hope it help.

Ps. I don't know what he wrote, either.

 

[Vũ Đàm Linh (Mazerlin)]

Oh, I'm dying. Why does everyone call me a straightforward person? ( I thought I have disguised my intentions with layers of ambiguous words and expressions. I am damned depressed now ( Poor me! You guys all find the way in my wordmaze in spite of tricks I set up. My world is ground to powders. Farewell, farewell, I will never be able to face this naked fact. ((( *already drowning in an ocean of tears*

 

[Phạm Thị Hồng Nhung (nhungph)]

Linh, people usually feel happy when they're understood ) Seems like you have seas of like-mindeds out there Take it as a compliment - Your prose is Hemingwayish

Sorry for the intrusion, but I .. kind of missed the deleted posts. So, what you're talking about is completely over my head. Well, it seems like SUCH an interesting discussion 0 .. Anyone kind enough to enlighten me and unfortunate others :")

 

[V.N Hà Anh (HaAnh)]

First of all I don't think we should dig in this thread any further. If the starter of it has choosen to delete it, though it's right or wrong (you think), we'd better respect his decision.
Second of all, Tuan Anh, you're right! I have loads of conflicts myself and once or twice I don't even know exactly what I want. I've chosen to ignore certain things that make itch but no, at the end of the day I am not totally ignorance of people's feelings. If anyone says he is, I would say he lies.
I have learnt that talking loudly would not make people think you're brave; hurting other's feelings would not always make you feel any better about yourself; and blah blah blah... but they're just the lessons of my own. You guys might have your own ways of living life and I respect it.